The girl turned to the users of the website Reddit for advice after mistakenly uttered the name of another guy being with her boyfriend, she probably left without a boyfriend or at least she will have to change your relationship status to «complicated.»
25-year-old girl named «Jane» who used the fictitious names to protect the identity of all participants of the incident, said that she and her boyfriend have been Dating for 6 months. They with a boyfriend, whom she called «Mike» last weekend went to the «super-expensive hotel» to spend time together.
But when a couple had sex, according to the author of the post, she accidentally uttered a man’s name, and not just someone else, and the name of her ex boyfriend «Adam».
«I know I made a big mistake, because their names are very different, I don’t know what I was thinking,» wrote Jane. «What’s even worse is the fact that Mike was faced with Adam a week or 2 ago.»
«But Mike is much nicer and much better in bed, so I know that he is not experiencing self-doubt», she added.
She continued, explaining that Mike immediately jumped up and began to dress. He said that he needed time to think and started to gather my things, despite the fact that they had booked another 2 nights in the hotel.
«I was a little upset and tried to hug him back, but he just pushed me back on the bed and said «leave it alone»» she added.
After an unpleasant incident the past few days have not heard anything from Mike. «I wrote him a long message of apology, but he had a few days of me not responding. He didn’t even read the message. What do I do? He is wonderfully behaved with me, and I can’t lose him now».
The dilemma Jane has gone viral and received more than 15 thousand likes and about 4 thousand comments from Reddit users.
Many pointed to the fact that, despite the author’s claims that her boyfriend looks better than her ex and believes in himself, he received a severe blow to self-esteem, when it was called another name. «No matter what you think about yourself. If your partner is thinking about someone else, who do you think is worse, that’s enough,» wrote one commenter. Another added: «If he didn’t have insecurities before, she had just appeared now.»
Most told her to leave the guy while he’s trying to digest what happened. «You must give him time to think. More you can not do anything,» wrote someone. «In the best case he thinks that you have not forgotten your ex. A recent meeting brought back feelings. In the worst case he thinks you’re cheating on him with her ex. Frankly, it doesn’t matter, it’s already happened. He should be given the chance to think about it. Give him the chance.»
