Mother threatened to break off relations with the mother-in-law secretly trying to pierce the ears of her daughter

Shocked mother, horrified by the mother’s husband, who wanted to get her ears pierced for her daughter a secret from her mother.

American appealed to the Reddit forum for advice and explained that they have with the mother of her husband and so a strained relationship. She wrote: «We live 8 hours from it, see each other once a year and we talk probably once a month.»

Explaining that her husband has no illusions about the problematic behaviour of her mother, she writes: «He would have moved her car than allowed to hurt me or our 3 daughters».

She adds that no relationship was perfect until the incident. But after the couple recently had 3 daughter, mother in law of course visiting family with my daughter, but was disappointed when the 2 older granddaughter «didn’t recognize her and didn’t want anything with her to do.»

A woman writes that, oddly enough, the mother-in-law complained for years about the fact that the girls ears are not pierced. Parents of children answered that when the girls are old enough to ask about it, then they will perform the procedure.

The day after the arrival of a sister woman’s husband offered to go out with 2 older girls and her mom to a young mother could relax at home with a newborn.

A woman writes: «I trust my sister and her husband happily agreed, lying on the couch with the child watching something on TV.» However, when after a few hours they returned, the sister of her husband admitted that her mom made her go to a jewelry store to try to pierce the ears of girls. Fortunately, the girl intervened, and the store Manager refused to perform the procedure without a mother girls. Explaining that grandma «100% punctured the ears of the girls, had it not been for her daughter,» the author of the post on the forum added: «She even dared to get angry at the poor girl!»

Not knowing what to do, the woman continues: «At the moment I’m ready to completely stop her fellowship.»

It is not surprising that other forum members sided with the mother and began to suggest ways as she can to talk with the mother about what happened, not getting in trouble, the sister of her husband.

One user suggested: «If you live in a small town, mention that you heard from a neighbor that a woman brought someone else’s child to get a piercing of ears and isn’t it ridiculous?»

Another added: «Just tell me that your friend was in the store or works there and saw the whole situation and contacted you.»

Someone added: «I would never spoke again. I can’t believe she decided that it is acceptable to do so».

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